Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Putting the Blame on others

Our inability to accept reality, our insecurity to trust others and our overconcern to maintain a good image; all result in incidents we would never come forward to take credit for.
We make a mistake, we realize the blunder made and then, we rush to cover that up.

Why? How?

Why, we are yet to find out but how...
Put the blame on the other party or even a third party.

He said, "..."
It happened...

How justified is it?

3 comments:

George Machlan said...

I'm not real sure what you are saying here but I have an opinion. I believe that in our American society there is an over developed need to be liked. For most this means never really sharing their true feelings for fear of being rejected. That is really sad for even when one is accepted the next question begs to asked, "But if they new how I really feel would they still accept me?"

In the name of civility we are now all walking on pins and needles. I have a sneaking suspicion that it may be partially due to Americans straying from there spiritual roots. When there is no longer a central place in one life of a loving God then one must find validation and value in the eyes of another.

We are, after all created as social beings. If we must depend on others for a sense of worth to replace an acceptance by God we set ourselves and the others we would draw too up for failure.

I am pretty sure that I am off on a tangent that is not pertinent to your post but thanks for letting me share.

George Machlan said...

ps my blog is here:
www.myeslfriends.blogspot.com

nancy said...

Well,I'll extend the scope to include everyone n not just Americans. We all want to be liked by others, n r ready to go to any limits for that...

Thanks for writing here!