TOUGH DECISIONS

Strange things happen everyday, sometimes we behave strangely and at other times, other people behavior seems strange...
During such unexpected instances what helps is the will to understand what's going around us. At times, we just can't read what happened to our friend a minute ago. And, there are instances when we just can't read the other person's mind. Then, we get really sad.
After all, the heartbreak is more intense when someone very close hurts us. Unknown acquaintances might speak a thousand unjust words; but a sharp remark from someone we love is sure to damage our entire Universe!

Why can't the mind and heart be tuned to take less of the pain? There is this Indian Jingle for a Orange/Lemon friz "zor ka zhatka dhire se lege". It translates into "a high impact thing influences you lightly (Grammar can be ignored). In reality, this rules does wonders.
With friends and family or at the workplace; just try to smile when others expect you to burst with anger or cry with helplessness. It's fun to see your tough decisions melt into butter...